We should use the tools taught to us by the Apostle Paul in Ephesians 4:32 to make us more like Christ. If we are kind to one another, if we are tenderhearted toward others then we will have within our hearts the ability to forgive as God forgave us. This verse is telling us that we need both of the first components in order to have the third and most important one. Once you have Christ living within you and reflected to the world around you your kindness and compassion will draw others to the Master. It will change your world.